Kenapa Ramai Lelaki Curang??

Well isn't it the age old, million dollar question every women ask themselves since time immemorial...KENAPA LELAKI CURANG? Well you know what sisters of the world? While pondering on this i came across an article that states that statistically, the primary reason men cheats is apparently due to boredom. BOSAN? if you're bored you go to One Utama ke and get a new gadget or tengok movie NOT cruise or shopping for GIRLFRIEND baru! But in the spirit of trying not to be biased in regards of this issue, i am open to the fact that The reasons why men cheat on women can be varied. Although i prefer to think that lelaki will blame their reasons for bermain kayu tiga on their genes and their necessity to reproduce (aren’t we suppose to be further evolved than a chimp) Nevertheless, here are the top 10 reasons why i think they do:

1. Because they had the option. The old saying “men are only as faithful as their options” can sometimes ring true. Men don’t get offered sex as often as women so when the opportunity does arise, it can be very difficult for them to turn it down.

2. It boosts their ego. Sometimes men don’t feel like they are attractive to the opposite sex any more and when a woman shows some interest, not only does a man react, he may allow her to stroke his ego and more. There’s nothing like the thrill of the chase to men on the hunt. When they are finally rewarded for their efforts, their egos swell even larger.

3. To see if they can get away with it. If a man has the attitude of “what she doesn’t know, won’t hurt her,” he may cheat to see if he is sneaky and smart enough to get away with it. However, with all the advancement in surveillance spy ware, getting caught has now become easier than ever.

4. It’s new, different and exciting. Some men get tired of having steak for dinner every night and want to try a hamburger. The same goes for sex with a woman. That’s why men don’t necessarily always cheat with women who are more attractive than their partners.

5. He’s fallen out of love. Sometimes men become so comfortable in a relationship, they don’t know how to get out. They may be staying in the relationship because of children or financial reasons. However, they feel like they are missing out on love and may seek it out elsewhere. In their mind, this is as close to win-win as they can get.

Reasons why men cheat can be more complex than the above list or even be a combination of a few different reasons. Nevertheless, no reason is good enough reason to lie and be dishonest. After all, Karma can be a beach.

Obviously, women cheat too. But as the question came from a woman, only men will be dealt with here.